Anonymous asked: not a girl but i like yaoi bc it allows me to indulge in my fucked up kinks without anyone actually getting hurt. love blood/guro and dubcon and crying men but wouldnt want anyone irl to be hurt or killed or pressured into sex it's just a kink that works in fiction/fantasy/roleplay for me. also i'm a male bisexual mess + yaoi helped me figure out i liked dudes haha

I can relate to a lot of this. Thank you for your input! It can be applied to females too!! ’ u ‘

26th July, SaturdayReblog

It’s really disappointing. When I get better at drawing I’m gonna draw the best shit ever.

25th July, FridayReblog
Anonymous asked: (answering the yaoi question ha) weLL I lean towards guys more and I've been reading yaoi since I was alittletooyoungtoadmit*cough* and I guess I liked it because mainstream "porn"/smut was always catering to straight men and so I felt relieved when I found out that manga w/ GUYS fucking was like, a thing. (and targeted at girls, too). I realized I enjoyed the sex portion of BL as well as the emotional part. In good BL the relationship interactions are a lot different from shonen and shoujo!!!

This is such a cute response omg I want to hug you. Str8 porn is really boring and I even find actual gay porn to be???? Because I actually lean more towards girls and I like yuri A LOT but it caters to a lot of men as well, so often I am sad and disappointed =( I like busty curvy women but they end up doing really awkward things and I’m like “friend no why pls stop”. 

Whereas with Yaoi I liked a lot of fucked up shit because I’m a trashy sadist that likes to bully people (unless I’m like, in love or something then I’m all about bein’ the devoted house waifu I’M JOKING BUT IT’S KINDA HAPPENIN TO ME RN BYE). 

It’s also nice seeing men in a fictional setting where all sorts of wonderful stuff happens HAHAHHA

25th July, FridayReblog

comradejotaro:

yo can we like get something clear for a second

i feel like a lot of folks, especially yaoi fans, are really into the whole masc top and femme bottom dynamic in gay pairings

while that’s fine and dandy, it seems like a lot of people go out of their way to somehow prove that the submissive partner is somehow more feminine and therefore justified in his position as the submissive/uke, and the masculine partner is justified in his position as the dominant/seme because, well look at him he’s so manly he HAS to top amirite

not only is that unrealistic but it’s also a perpetuation of stereotypes not only within the queer community but also of heteronormative ideals. it furthers the idea that femininity, and by default, women, are naturally submissive in sex, which we obviously know is not the case, and that men are naturally dominant in sex, which is, again, false. 

you can have your preferences, but perhaps looking at WHY you prefer these dynamics over others is in order. masc people can bottom, femme people can top, and there’s a whole lot in between that as well so just. don’t restrict people, is all i’m sayin.

25th July, FridayReblog
Anonymous asked: I like anime/manga. I like love stories/porn. I like guys. Mix them all together and you get Yaoi. I've always been really particular about fictional female characters, so I guess another 'selling point' is the fact that girls aren't the main focus.

I’m super picky about everything, so it’ll take me FOREVER to like something, and I’m even more picky with yaoi now <___> I’d pick up a yaoi doujin or something than a shoujo manga tbh Speaking of, I need to find some good yuri things. 

25th July, FridayReblog

heliumkisses answered your post: “I was out with a friend today, and he told me that the people at the…”:
i always saw it as one hot boy is good, another hot boy is even better. i also think there’s something about eliminating female competition

With that I relate it to the really crazed yaoi fangirls. There was actually a post in regards to it, and I reblogged it on my main earlier. I’ll reblog it here too.

25th July, FridayReblog

Same friend also knows about Hetalia. I told him why I got into it, because of the awful great doujins. I also told him how I have a transparent England pissing on America on my blog. 

Loved his reactions. 

25th July, FridayReblog
Anonymous asked: I think the way tv tropes puts it is the most accurate. "However, to be utterly blunt, most common theories today are that women like to see men vulnerable (and exploited) - emotionally and sexually - and to see explicit gay sex, mainly penetration, as an observer, allowing them to substitute mentally for both the dominating figure penetrating the submissive, or for the vulnerable submissive being dominated".

This is a really good way of putting it tbh. My eyes are actually sparkling right now too LOL. 

25th July, FridayReblog

harpy-boy answered your post: “I was out with a friend today, and he told me that the people at the…”:
i’m not a girl but there’s a post floating around that explains it really well

Do you have a link? I’d like to show him :0

25th July, FridayReblog

I was out with a friend today, and he told me that the people at the game store asked why a lot of lesbians like yaoi. I said it’s not just lesbians you know, and as a half joke I offered to ask my female followers (you don’t have to be cis either), why you like yaoi. Well, why do you?

25th July, FridayReblog
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